comparing???
is a good thing actually...
it motivates us and as well as make us a better person...
sometimes it might upset one by comparing themselves with other...
for example, you think your friend look better than you and you're bother by that...
then... this is a bad one...
and it is even worse when you're not comparing yourself with others,
instead, you compare one person, with another, which is not you, yourself...
you might made mistake in your judgement when you brought prejudice along with your judgement....
or maybe you don't bring prejudice, but it just wash over your judgement like that, without yourself realizing...
human being... that's what we do.... of course we choose the one we favor... but you don't really have to bash the other just because you think the one you favor is better...
keep it in your mind, keep in your heart...
compare, but don't voice out what's in your mind...
people got offended by it....
we're normal human being, sometimes, we can't help but being bias...
the best way to avoid this is either keep it, or voice it out, but in a good way...
for example...if you really felt like telling that your friend's bf sings really bad and you think your bf's singing is way better...
edit your words before letting it out, it make a big difference...
just said "the guys is really bad at singing" will do...
you don't have to tell everything out, like "my bf is better than him!"
that's a fail....
even though that's the truth but still, you don't have to tell out because it will just offend people...
also, sometimes, we wont know if what we thought are really the truth, or it is just plain bias...
be good... be nice... and is all started with what comes out from your mouth...
lies are bad, but white lies are good...
finally over here...
wanted to share a fiction that i wrote...
ermmmm...
i guess the fiction is dedicated to Syane?
no....is not(?) i don't know too...
http://kangaroobb.livejournal.com/2195.html#cutid1
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